Feedback options request

Hi,
I'm just setting up my feedback for the first time, and am nearly completed.

I have already inserted the feedback module, but I would like to change the style and layout. Unfortunately this appears to only be possible by hardcode changes:

Specifically....
I don't want the guest's full name to appear - an option to choose the following would be good:
Full name
First name & first letter of surname
First name only
Initials only

I also want to be able to format the date/time option.

All of the fields (name, thumbs, date, postive, negative) should all have the option to enable/disable

Also the like/dislke options aren't in the feedback form any more, so the code should be removed from the front end, shouldn't it?